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Signposts
of Debting
We have all arrived
at this crossroad.
One
road, a soft road, lures you on to further despair, illness,
ruin, and in some cases, mental institutions, prison, or suicide.
The
other road, a more challenging road, leads to self-respect,
solvency, healing, and personal fulfillment.
We urge you to take
the first difficult step onto the more solid road now.
Twelve Signs of Compulsive Debting
1. Being unclear about your financial situation. Not knowing account balances, monthly expenses,
loan interest rates, fees, fines, or contractual obligations.
2. Frequently "borrowing" items such as books, pens, or small amounts of money from friends and
others, and failing to return them.
3. Poor saving habits. Not planning for taxes, retirement or other not-recurring but predictable
items, and then feeling surprised when they come due; a "live for today, don't worry about
tomorrow" attitude.
4. Compulsive shopping: Being unable to pass up a "good deal"; making impulsive purchases; leaving
price tags on clothes so they can be returned; not using items you've purchased.
5. Difficulty in meeting basic financial or personal obligations, and/or an inordinate sense of
accomplishment when such obligations are met.
6. A different feeling when buying things on credit than when paying cash, a feeling of being in the
club, of being accepted, of being grown up.
7. Living in chaos and drama around money: Using one credit card to pay another; bouncing checks;
always having a financial crisis to contend with.
8. A tendency to live on the edge: Living paycheck to paycheck; taking risks with health and car
insurance coverage; writing checks hoping money will appear to cover them.
9. Unwarranted inhibition and embarrassment in what should be a normal discussion of money.
10.Overworking or underearning: Working extra hours to earn money to pay creditors; using time
inefficiently; taking jobs below your skill and education level.
11.An unwillingness to care for and value yourself: Living in self-imposed deprivation; denying your
basic needs in order to pay your creditors.
12. A feeling or hope that someone will take care of you if necessary, so that you won't really get into
serious financial trouble, that there will always be someone you can turn to.
© 2001 Debtors Anonymous General Service Board, Inc.
Registered D.A. groups have permission to copy this page for distribution to its members.
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